What is “Acceptance”?

This is the post about fibromyalgia and chronic pain (and depression and PTSD) that I wish I had written! It’s a marvelous description of the tricky balancing act we spoonies go through as we struggle with acceptance of our condition(s) and refusing to let said condition(s) rule our lives and define who we are. A fantabulous read!

Pain(t)h.D.

“Fibromyalgia is kind of like my logical nature, there’s no point wishing I was different regarding either!” So went my thoughts one day, that landed me in a long reverie about what it meant to me that I had absorbed my diagnosis like so. I had written before about what acceptance meant to me on a practical level. But now I wondered, what does acceptance, as a philosophy, mean to those of us with a chronic illness?

Featured painting: Guided by the Lights (8X10, oil on canvas)

I think of acceptanceas lying on a continuum between denial and resignation:

acceptance_0Denial:

In a nutshell: The chronic illness does not tell me who I am or what I can do!
Keynote:Defiance

On one end, there is extreme denialthat a chronic illness even exists. Often, this results in massive overexertion, leading to increased pain and fatigue…

View original post 742 more words

Happy Monday

Hey, thanks for stopping by! While you’re here, please check out my new, revamped “About” page. It will give you a clearer idea of why I slave over this blog and who I am targeting to receive the fruits of my labors. And when you’re done, I hope you will enjoy the photos of our crabapple tree exploding with blossoms–I wait all year for this!

btl_blossoms_darkbtl_blossoms_pink.dkpinkbtl_crabapple_branches_waxgfancy_blsosoms_lightburn22gfancy_blossoms_retro24btl_blossom_pink.bokeh.jpg